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This is a fact, wether or not the NON-SMOKERS like it or not!   Why do I say this?   Well let me tell you a little true story that just happened the other day, ready?, good, here goes:

I was sitting INSIDE my own personal vehicle in a parking lot, and yes, I smoke, but I was MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS waiting in my vehicle while my wife had ran inside the store to get a couple of things, I was parked in a legal parking space with the driver side window rolled down and the sun/moonroof open, I WAS NOT flicking ashes or butts out my window, I have an ASHTRAY I keep inside my vehicle for that, nor do I intnetionally blow smoke toward anyone.   Okay, that's all well and fine, UNTIL this BIMBO(lady) drives in and parks, gets out of her car with her kids, gives me a REAL NASTY GLARE and then YELLS at me about "smoking in front of her children is setting a BAD example and that I should put out that cigarette immediately, not only because it's a bad example to her children, but you're NOT supposed to be smoking in the area!    Note, THERE ARE NO no smoking SIGNS anywhere and there was an ASHTRAY in front of the business where you could put your butts or smoke out before entering the store just a little ways before the doors.   Then another BIMBO, alone chimes in with this other BIMBO and BOTH start harping about MY SMOKING in MY OWN VEHICLE, well EXCUSE ME, but last time I checked NO LAWS have been passed BANNING ME FROM SMOKING IN MY OWN VEHICLE!

So after these two BIMBO's tirade and barrage of insults and such, I let them have it with not only both barrels, but a full on barrage of my attitude, damn right I WAS ANGRY, THEY WERE INVADING MY PERSONAL SPACE which MANY NON-SMOKERS DO have a habit of doing and then acting the fool, by coughing and hacking like the idiotic MORONS they are or by making asinine statements to the smoker(s) that were there BEFORE they came up, smoking and MINDING THEIR(OUR) OWN BUSINESS.

I gave this bimbo some of her own right back and this is what I said to her(this has been "censored" by me, because I REALLY let this MORON have it hard and can't post some of the verbage I gave her, but she deserved every syllable of it!!):

I'll bet you drink ALCOHOLIC beverages IN FRONT of your children, DON'T YOU?   And I'll bet you DRINK ALCOHOL and DRIVE too and probably with your children in the car.  She actually said she did to BOTH counts!  Now THIS IS A LOSER, not a smoker that DOES NOT do this and I DO NOT!

I also gave her an ear full on how SHE WAS A WORSE INFLUENCE to he children by DRINKING ALCOHOL, which is by far worse than smoking will ever be, yea, smoking may (NOT NECESSARILY) kill you over time, but a ALCOHOLIC DRINK and DRIVING could do it a LOT SOONER than smoking EVER WOULD! And also an earful on how would she like it if her right to drink or anything else she enjoyed was taken away from her as well.

You NON SMOKERS need to STOP AND THINK about the things YOU DO AND SAY to SMOKERS that CAUSE these type of feedback to you.   NON SMOKERS also need to STOP AND THINK about how would they like it if some of their "HABITS" were BANNED at all their favorite places.  

Again, I've been on BOTH sides of this fence, I was a NON SMOKER for 30 years BEFORE I took it back up and I am one of the few who could, if I so desired, quit COLD IMMEDIATELY, but I won't until STUPID PEOPLE in our government and those "private citizens" that do not smoke WAKE UP to the fact, that, they may think they've won by banning smokers and smoking, but sooner or later, they too are going to find themselves in a situation very similar to where something that is LEGAL will be banned from them.    All these idiots are doing is GIVING AWAY our AND THEIR CIVIL RIGHTS to do what should be legal and of our choice to do. 

NO ONE, NOT ANYONE SHOULD BE MAKING THESE CHOICES FOR US or TELLING US WHERE WE CAN OR CAN NOT DO LEGAL ACTIVITIES.

If you don't like smokers or smoking, then DO NOT INVADE THEIR SPACE, use your intelligence and walk away from them and keep your commentary to yourself, othwerwise don't be surprised if you annoy them and they INTENTIONALLY BLOW SMOKE YOUR WAY.     So if you come up to me and act an a$$ while I'm smoking and MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS, don't be surprised if you DO get a face full of smoke in that instance.   I ONLY do this to those that INVADE my space and start acting like a MORON by making hacking/coughing sounds and commentary in my face, leave me alone to my own devices and personal space and you have nothing to worry about.

So now you see how you NON SMOKERS can make someone that smokes "SO RUDE" as you put it, NINE, that IS CORRECT, NINE out of TEN times the NON-SMOKERS brings this on themself!

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Droopyz read my blog
Jun 22, 2008 | 8:17 AM

I don't know about the NINE out of TEN times, but, I agree that non-smokers contribute alot.
As the worst type of non-smoker in the world... an ex-smoker... I have found myself looking around at smokers.
While most of the slightly older American smokers (at least 25 years old, in general) seem to keep other people in mind and attempt to be considerate of others, alot of the punk kids don't. I figure it is a maturity thing, I thought I was pretty considerate at 20 with my smoking... but I probably wasn't.
The worst offenders are the European visitors, they are so rude with it... I had one lady light one up three times in a restaraunt... even though they were told to put it out each time, the third time they were asked to leave... they did, but not really quietly.
I wish that congress would lose their drinking priviledges... maybe then they would wake up and see how hypocritical it is to jump down smokers throats...

swansong2 read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 8:21 AM

I give you this one and think you are in the right (even though you censored what you said I think I could have done better LOL).
I can see NO SMOKING in certain places but then again there are certain places I dont think anyone should be able to tell you not to smoke.

J_Darrowin read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 9:06 AM

Well, I can't say I blame you there for blasting those two, Native. Nothing I can't stand more than self-rightous twits.

Now, I'm a non-smoker myself, but if I was, I would've handled your situation differently by turning their insults against them:

"Okay, that's all well and fine, UNTIL this BIMBO(lady) drives in and parks, gets out of her car with her kids, gives me a REAL NASTY GLARE and then YELLS at me about "smoking in front of her children is setting a BAD example and that I should put out that cigarette immediately, not only because it's a bad example to her children, but you're NOT supposed to be smoking in the area!"

Well... I was here first, you pulled up next to ME, so who's fault is that? Really? I'm not allowed to smoke here? Please point out the sign. And whats that ashtray doing there?

Nothing like deflating someone's arguement when they can't back it up. Makes them look even stupider than they already are.

FlaBoyJack read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 9:13 AM

I am a full fledge anti smoking freak when it comes to invading my space or making me sick. HOWEVER, when someone is smoking away from me or and not bothering me, such as your situation, I could care less if you are smoking, drinking, overdosing, gambling etc. This lady if you followed her around long enough probably beats her kids and they will all grow up to be chain smokers. :)

FlaBoyJack read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 9:21 AM

Also, one time I was at a restuarant where by state law, there is no smoking. Some guy lites up a cigar. Well when I called over the manager, she said " Well is a regular so I cant say anything. I said you better call the cops then as this is gonna get nasty. I proceded to dump a cup of water on the guys cigar and he and his family wanted to fight me. The cops were called and we both almost went to jail. I got an incident report and made a complaint to their corporate office, needless to say, that manager no longer works at that place all because she didnt have the guts to enforce the law or find someone who could. I disagree with you that non-smokers bring it upon themselves. I never invade a smokers space. How many Non smokers cause fires along the road by accidently throwing their gum out the window? Just a thought. I have nothing I repeat nothing against smokers, as long as they stay away from me when smoking. I have dated several smokers and even had smoking roomates. They just know the rule to do it outside and all is well. Oh an alot of mouthwash when kissing time comes around HAHA

Twizlled read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 10:46 AM

Yes some non-smokers can be very rude. If no signs were posted, then i feel you were withih your limited rights...I say limited because slowly we are losing our rights.
Funny how these women would bash you like that..bet if they saw a real crime, they would turn the cheek the other way and run like hell! Because they wouldnt want to get involved!
Yep. I dont bother you in my own space, puffing away, so stay away from me please.
Some people can be sooo ignorant.

DeborahLakeHelen read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 10:49 AM

I, too, am an anti-smoking freak WHEN the smoking invades MY right, or my kid's RIGHT'S to BREATHE FREELY. That woman pulled into the parking space next to you, THAT was HER choice, she could have backed up, and gone elsewhere, if she was so concerned about her kid's lungs. Under different circumstances, such as the cigar incident Jack mentioned, I probably would have pitched the same fit. It infuriates me when someone infringes on my right to breathe clean air. With the countless studies that have been done on the dangers of 2nd hand smoke, nobody can dispute the validity of the findings. However, that doesn't mean non-smokers have the right, under every circumstance, such as yours, Native, to have the say so in who has to move!

northton read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 10:57 AM

Yup.

northton read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 10:58 AM

And don't forget vegetarians that gag at the site of a hamburger. Puleeeeeeeaaassseee!!!

YBSRobin read my blog
Jun 22, 2008 | 12:46 PM

I am a non-smoker, I get angry when smokers don't follow respect of others, such as flipping the butts out of windows and/or not using their ashtray. But aside from that, smoker's have rights as well. From what you stated, you were doing nothing wrong and you were keeping it contained to your vehicle, so Yeah! You had every right to be angry! And I don't blame you. What was the mother of the children teaching her children as an example, blatant disrespect of others. If she was that angry, she could have gotten back in her car and moved it. The quiet way would have been a better approach to use as an example towards her children if she felt that strongly. But what kills me is the way you described it, the woman was so concerned for her children that she had to stand there to argue with you and keep exposing her children to what she's arguing over. Sounds like she was lacking some common sense there for a moment. And to add on the infringes on clean air, I get more angry at people who go grocery shopping, and leave their vehicles running all because they had to bring an animal with them. What's worse, an exhaust blowing into the next vehicle while one is sitting there with the windows down waiting or one smoking and keeping it contained in the vehicle.

Native_Floridian read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 2:47 PM

Well let me tell you this, she WAS NOT PARKED NEXT TO ME, she was parked 3 or 4 SPACES over AWAY FROM ME, but had to walk past my vehicle because the parking spaces are right along the store, although there are some opposite where I was parked away from the store. Also let me state this, I wasn't going to, but I will now, she was LOADED, YES, she reeked of alcohol, so that could have very well contributed to her behavior as well, I can't really say. BTW: I took her plate, vehicle and her description and called the cops saying I have a suspicion of a woman driving intoxicated with children in the car.

Now I am NOT, nor have I ever been a "rude smoker", I don't toss ANYTHING out my vehicle windows period, when its time to dump my ashtray I do it in a garbage can making sure all butts are definitely out by pouring a little water in the ashtray.

Nothing makes me angrier than seeing MORONS tossing their lit butts out their car windows, tossing ashes all over the roadway and Iloathe the smokers that can not even pick themselves up off a bench to walk less than 1-2 feet to DiSPOSE of their spent butt either, I also DO NOT like those that would just blatantly approach folks and just blow smoke in their face for the hell of it.

As for smoking in restaurants, believe it or not, I CAN AGREE with that, I hate trying to eat and having smoke blowing everywhere. So I have NO PROBLEM with that, however, I DO have a problem when these same establishments serve alcohol, I usually avoid those places, but sporting events and public events tend to sell alcohol and put up signs to NO

Native_Floridian read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 2:48 PM

CONTINUED:

to NOT SMOKE when these are HELD OUTSIDE. If they were an indoor event, if no smoking, then there should be NO ALCOHOL either because BOTH are a bad influence to our youth! As a matter of fact, if the woman hadn't of made such a fool of herself, I was actually going to put the cigarette I was smoking down, out of sight until she and her children had passed, of which I was IN the process of doing. Her kids NEVER would have noticed me if it had not of been for her!

And I'll stand by the 9 out of 10 NON-SMOKER statement, I try to respect non-smokers, but they in turn should also respect the smoker, again I have been on both sides of this fence.

Native_Floridian read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 2:51 PM

BTW: I'd have done the same about the guy smoking the cigar in an area where smoking is not permitted. That manager and any staff that did not follow the rules here should have all been terminated and replaced with those that have the guts to have any patron put out that cigar or cigarette where it is NOT to be smoked!

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 3:08 PM

good FOR YOU FLORIDANATIVE...........and you are absolutely right. I have been commended from many people BECAUSE I BOUGHT A PERSONAL SMALL ASH TRAY I CARRY WITH ME..EVEN IF I AM IN A BAD PLACE I NEVER FLICK ASHES OR BUTTS.....and I too had a similar situation..now I am coming out of Downtow Disney headed for my car with my family ITS ALMOST MIDNIGHT...I always stand a few feet behind so that I can smoke before getting into the car with my son, AND THIS LADY AND WHO KNOWS A YOUNGER GIRL...SEE ME..NOW I AM WALKING ONE WAY.....I LIT MY CIGARETTES AND THEN THEY HEAD "MY DIRECTION" AND START FAKING COUGHS AND ALL THIS NONSENSE...and I let them have it.....LIKE HELLO..YOU SAW ME WHY THE HELL DIDN'T YOU WALK THE OTHER WAY....AND THAT WAS THE WAY TO THEIR VEHICLE......SO YES i got stupid and BLEW THE SMOKE right towards them BECAUSE NOW I WAS BEING HARASSED FOR NO REASON........BS.....what they do against smokers and WE NEED TO HAVE RIGHTS......

DeborahLakeHelen read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 3:14 PM

Good for you, Native, for turning the tables on HER, and calling her out on the floor for being intoxicated and driving with her kids in tow!

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 3:14 PM

sorry.....lol...Native Florida........isn't it awful how they make us smokers FEEL LIKE CRIMINALS.....even in public I always ask the people around me just OUT OF COURTESY AND SOME JUST DON'T APPRECIATE jacksheit......LIKE I have said in the past..back in 70's 80's people smoke in offices; hospitals AND EVERYONE WAS FINE..they started this nonsense 2nd smoke crap AND EVERYONE'S DYING...but guess what.....NOT FROM THE SMOKE OF CIGARETTES.........

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 4:15 PM

Hey Native..Patric Pegues has a story on some mother that was arrested.............THAT WOULD BE HYSTERICAL...if the cops came and arrested that intoxicated bimbo.....lmaoffffffffff..ruf ruf....

dks75 read my blog
Jun 22, 2008 | 6:09 PM

FlaBoyJack: your gum on a walk way could piss me off because it stuck to my shoe them my carpet... Them I'm PO and have a smoke and throw it out the window, so you gum cause me to start a fire :P

candyaquino read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 6:18 PM

now that was funny dks75......lmaofff...and I hate that with a passion yealk..in Jersey darn it everywhere you go......gum gum..

HECK I CAN'T CHEW GUM AND WALK AT THE SAME TIME.......ROF.....LMAOFF

RNC08 read my blog view my photos
Jun 22, 2008 | 9:57 PM

I always walk away from any group of people when I smoke , but what astounds me is that the most hostile non smokers are willing to fallow me around so that they can complain about my smoking . But the thing that I have noticed most often about militant anti smokers is that they all have one thing in common....they are all over weight , to this day I have never been confronted by anyone who was not at least 30% over the BMI index...so it is reasonable to assume that people who are so “anti smoking” are in fact aware that they are currently 400% to 600% more at risk of injury / death with their habit than I am with mine! ...it is about projecting personal guilt and avoiding addressing their own problems.

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Native_Floridian

True Native Floridian and of Southern Heritage and PROUD OF IT!Currently live in Casselberry, Florida with my wife and two cats, one of which is my avatar photo.I am also a "Paranormal Investigator" and do have a strong belief in ghosts, spirits, demons and things not explainable of this world. Despite what folks say, not everything does have a scientific explaination and I, believe it or not, am of a scientific mind myself, but I have seen and experienced things that absolutely have no scientific or logical explaination.I HATE BRAIN DEAD POLITICANS and BRAIN DEAD VOTERS that would put incorrect people into office beause of their gender or color, that IS NOT what makes or breaks a candidate.I believe it is actually time to throw our Government out with the trash! Why? Because all they do is they KEEP WORKING AGAINST US, because they sure ARE NOT WORKING WITH or FOR US!I dislike people that do not have enough sense to stay home to drink alcoholic beverages, but would rather drive drunk (sometimes with children in the vehicle!) and impaired on the roads than find a designated NON DRINKING DRIVER!I really dislike people (transplants) talking badly about my home state and it is something that will rile me up and may just have me say something you won't like, but if you insult where I grew up and was raised, EXPECT the same in kind. I try to be tolerant, but this is one area I HAVE NO TOLERANCE for transplants insulting the "Florida way of life", don't like it, keep your mouth shut and go home. I don't and have never went and visited any other states and bad-mouthed it, even if I didn't like it, I kept considerate of YOUR HOME while I visited, why can't you do the same when in Florida?

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