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If there’s one thing I’ve come to find pretty reliable in news and in life, it’s that people are seldom logical, clear-of-vision or even particularly consistent. A woman who overpays the IRS may steal lipstick from her mother’s purse; managers who support the noblest of charitable causes may mistreat their own employees; a grown male teacher who is utterly sincere about keeping his 15 year old daughter safe and protected may simultaneously be inappropriately eyeing his own 15 year old female students; and otherwise moderate, and even successful people, will gorge, gamble or drink themselves into oblivion. We humans are a pretty confused and confusing lot.

But once in a while you stumble upon someone who goes a bit beyond the realm of those normal irregularities of human texture. Someone apparently sane suddenly exhibits such a massive failure of judgment and reasoning that you have to wonder about the integrity of their whole eye/brain/spinal-chord assembly. I’m thinking Nixon during Watergate or the sweet mother of ten years who suddenly drowns her kids in a bathtub. And frankly, I’m starting to wonder if John Edwards is treading very far from such territory. 

I mean, okay, so the guy cheated on his wife. A wife, at least according to his political narrative, that he was supposedly immensely devoted to. A wife sick with cancer, and who, it’s looking more and more likely (despite his protestations to the contrary), had relapsed and found out she was terminally ill while he was misbehaving. In fact, according to the newly credible Enquirer, who is sticking to its original story, while Edwards’ affair with Rielle Hunter may indeed have temporarily ended in 2006 like he claims, it was rekindled shortly thereafter, leading to a daughter with whom he visited at least three times since her birth. I’ll admit, it doesn’t look great on paper. But if we’re going to be grown-ups about the whole thing, we’ve got to face that there’s nothing particularly jaw-dropping about the scenario: A high-powered ambulance chaser finally gets his chance on the campaign trail. He’s getting to sleep in the wee hours of the morning and waking to cantaloupe-colored sunrises. Living between suitcases and a private jet. High on exhaustion and dreams of victory. And here, this new age sweetheart who thinks his every waking moment, his every smile, is worth capturing on film, is bringing him coffee, mussing up his hair, talking to him about the power of his aura and the greatness for which he’s destined. Overtaken by desire, a child is conceived. At 54, High Powered Attorney is reassured his boys can still swim. And with the odds of naturally conceiving at 43 looming at a mere 3%, New Age Mistress is convinced this represents nothing less than the supremacy of fate. It isn't hard to fathom. We all have our vulnerabilities.

So no… it isn’t the possibility of all this that makes me wonder about Edwards. What’s so intriguing to me about the evolving saga are not the bare naked facts, or the timing, or even the likely fruit of such a transgression, but rather the circuit-blowing complexity Edwards appears to have gone through in order to save a political career that was not only doomed because of precisely these machinations, but that would have doomed the chances of his entire party had he managed to work his way onto the Democratic ticket, whether as a front-runner or VP. In light of this, we’re looking at a potentially lethal combination of selfishness, narcissism, and utter stupidity.

I mean, did Edwards really think he could eternally sustain a political career while avoiding the exposure of an affair that took place while he was campaigning? And in trying to mop up his mess, did he truly think, as a public figure, that no one would question campaign aide Andrew Young’s claim to the paternity of Rielle Hunter’s child despite the fact that a) Young appears to have a criminal history, b) no one has come forward to corroborate any romantic relationship between Young and Hunter, c) Young is not listed on the birth certificate as the father, d) even Young’s mother says she isn't buying the story, and e) Hunter herself, after publicly stating Young is the father of her child, then invokes a sudden demand for privacy in refusing a paternity test? Did Edwards think his I-will-have-nothing-more-to-say statement would put a cap on all the inquiry? That his on-camera interview would feed the mainstream media to satiation? That he could traipse around Washington avoiding questions about the thousands upon thousands of dollars that had been funneled Rielle Hunter’s way, or dodge any scrutiny into the financial help she and Young received from Fred Baron, Edwards’ longtime chief fundraiser, to move them both across the country? I don’t know how Edwards’ mind works, but I certainly wouldn’t want him to be my president or vice president or attorney general or regular attorney or even friend, frankly. With friends like that who needs… well, you know…

But forget my take. What’s yours? Is Edwards insane, dumb or just a normal guy who fell into some inconvenient circumstances? And who has been hurt most by his whole dig-a-deeper-hole debacle? Edwards himself, his family, Rielle Hunter and her daughter, the friends and associates who appear to have been trying to help him, or the whole Democratic party? Finally, are there any winners here besides the National Enquirer? Do you think this will, and ultimately should, help McCain and his supporters’ cause? 

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marv read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 8:45 AM

i've not been enamored with john edwards at any point. the winner here is leelila! i don't imagine any impact on either mcCain's or obama's run.

statueman read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 9:35 AM

I don't know Leelila, about John Edwards motivations. But I do know about image building role model scapegoating debutante mentalities that are doomed to failure. Seems all people can agree that none of us are perfect but none of can agree on exactly what qualifies as satisfactory.

If John Edwards had been my friend who came to me over the last few years and told me about what was going on in his life I would have strongly warned him that most likely his infidelities would be exposed since he placed his fidelity to his wife and family on such strong display. I would have spoken these things to him being ever mindful of my own weaknesses lest I judged him too harshly and found myself severely tempted in some similar way.

Is it possible that John Edwards has a mental deficiency of some sort? Of course... the brain like any other bodily organ can have defects and studies have shown that stress can cause those defects to kick in and become cause for great concern.

I think that John Edwards suffers from those "image building role model scapegoating debutante mentalities" that we have chosen in our collective con-science to view as virtuous in this country. His image took a big hit and now we all look on to see if he is a phoenix or a crow.

samo714 read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 9:57 AM

he's a dope thinking with the wrong head that's all. hell, he as a power trip, thinks he can do what he wants, and thought he could get away with it. all business men/ politicians think that way. it's normal in some way. i'm sure he loves his wife, but i doubt he gonna want to sleep with her in her current condition so he has to fulfill his needs elsewhere.

if anyone is hurt by this, it's his wife, hell she could be dying, and in her mind she's thinking i gave my best years to this jerk. or she might be thinking that she's damaged goods, and could totally understand why he cheated and be ok with it, but still feels like crap.

marv read my blog view my photos
Aug 18, 2008 | 6:37 PM

moogie: i feel this way--see if i am wrong!
edwards knew his wife was dying. he already felt lonely. he fell in with the first bimbo who seduced him.
marv: i don't have any affinity for john edwards. i never have. is this odd?
brenda rezvan: no. i don't like him. i don't hate him
marv: he always struck me as queer with his bangs~
moogie: he's just a lawyer/politician
marv: there is something wimpy about him.
moogie: precious
: cossetted
: protected
: unaware of the real world
: something !
: is my observation too strange?
: about being lonely in advance?
marv: hey... my thinking is always as my head is. if a chick were silly "what is your sign?" as she said to a newsweek reporter...(in one of the links)
i would never try to fyck her. yet i did go for jane-- who was some kind of mentally ill. i think schizophrenic.
moogie: you weren't married
: to a dying woman
marv: honey...i've no problem with john edwards. i simply never felt love for him. i do feel love for barack and i feel more love for mcCain.
: would you mind if marv posts the last 5 lines?
moogie: go ahead. i love leelila, and marv!
marv: i love you too! and i love leelila!

johntheman read my blog
Aug 18, 2008 | 9:30 PM

NOT ODD MARV. JOHN EDWARDS MAY AS WELL BE A WOMAN. AND THE WOMAN HE ALLOWED TO SEDUCE HIM AND GET HER PREGNANT IS A TOTAL QUACK. READ THIS OTHER ARTICLE SOME WRITER WROTE ABOUT HER. SHE TOLD THIS WOMAN YEARS AGO AFTER MEETING HER ONCE THAT HER ENERGY WAS GOING TO LEAD HER TO SOME VERY POWERFUL MEN. SHE IS A WHACK JOB OBSEESED WITH MONEY AND POWER EVEN THOUGH SHE IS UGLY AS SATAN. JOHN EDWARDS NEEDS TO BE THE PRETTY ONE IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP OBVIOUSLY AND IS A PSYCHOPATH FOR EVER BECOMING INVOLVED WITH HER. LEELILA YOU ARE RIGHT THAT HE IS A TOTAL IDIOT AND STUPID LOON FOR JEAPORDIZING HIS FAMILY AND HIS PARTY. AND FOR NOTHING OTHER THAN THIS GOOD FOR NOTHING EYE SORE WHO IS NOW GOING TO RUIN HIS LIFE FOREVER WITH THIS DAUGTHER THEY HAVE TOGETHER.

ANYWAY HERE IS THE LINK TO THE ARTICLE
http://www.canada.com/montrealgazette/news/editorial/st
ory.html?id=c961c5a6-2443-437c-9768-c04771da93be

johntheman read my blog
Aug 18, 2008 | 9:38 PM

AND FOR TELLING DUMB LIES NO ONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD BELIEVE. TOTAL IDIOT HYPOCRITE WHO INSULTED THE US OF A EXPECTING IT TO BELIEVE HIS BS AND CRIMINAL FRIENDS AND GIRLFRIEND WHO WERE ALL PAID OFF TO TRY TO COVER HIS DIRTY TRACKS. WATCH AFTER ELIZABETH EDWARDS DROPS DEAD HE'S GOING TO PUBLICLY ANNOUNCE THAT RIELLE HUNTER'S DAUGHTER IS HIS BUT THAT HE LIED TO PROTECT HIS WIFES POOR FEELINGS NOT BECAUSE OF ANY POLITICAL AMBITION. WHICH WILL BE JUST ANOTHER DUMB LIE. THIS GUY IS SCUM.

sebar read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 12:40 AM

John Edwards has a wife with cancer. But Dr. Michael Savage has it right on him. He sued doctors and hospitals to get rich. He dragged them through the courts. John Edwards is a man who didn't even try to remain faithful to his marriage vows and respect his "dying" wife. He is the very same mold as that ahole Mayor of ours as both cheated on their spouse. In fact he is worse, because he couldn't even wait to use his pecker elsewhere while his wife is dying. I honestly wouldn't even waste my spit on someone like this. Admire him as handsome and debonaire, he can kiss my red, white and blue Author's derriere. Same with our ahole Mayor too, they are both cheating lying no good aholes and hopefully they can go drop dead after they do a counter clockwise flip, the sooner the better. Exit stage left...

Moogie read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 1:35 AM

Thanks Marv for saving me the trouble of typing that thought over again.

Mrs. Edwards has always struck me as a fine woman who has weathered trouble.

John Edwards has a face which looks composed from the front and pinched and vain from the side. His squinting indicates that he needs glasses.

When he gets them, he will understand what he has done.

mystere read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 10:55 AM

Edwards has been in the political barn too long...he probably never had any sense at all...an ambulance chasing lawyer for Senator? He has shown his true colors, and it will get even uglier over time. Anything good that he may have done has become tainted with his scandals...yes, even he had at least one good thing, whatever it was.

DfDeportation read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 12:12 PM

Rielle and John give new meaning to the idea of "offshore drilling".

sebar read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 1:34 PM

DF, you are correct offshore drilling for a John, I couldn't have struck this better...hey, where's the smart pretty redhead who started this topic??? Not making a pass though, just being on my good behavior in here... ;)

Leelila_Strogov read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 3:11 PM

i'm still awestruck by how much genius I'm encountering here. i don't think any of you realize it, but a few of your thoughts and lines could be easily strung into some literary masterpiece.

marv, i totally understand and agree with you about edwards. there's been something lacking all along, something recognizably human missing from his patchwork, that now has him in trouble as no one feels much sympathy. and btw, i love the whole idea that you wouldn't try to... you know... sleep with someone who asked you what your sign was early on. brilliant, and astute.

statueman, "image building role model scapegoating debutante mentalities" is perfect!

ahhh samo, don't we all think with that wrong head sometimes. very good point about elizabeth being the most hurt one in the end (the party could of been, but seems like it wasn't-i agree that she took the brunt of it). although sometimes i wonder if that hurt has propelled her to be in on the whole messy web of lies too. i.e. she's a smart woman, who probably knows the whole story, and maybe has for some time, and maybe is now just trying to help him do damage control, trying to help him sweep what he can under the rug and mop up the rest in an effort to help the both of them save face. i could see doing something similar whether i decided to stay with the man or not. you always have some loyalty to a person you once loved, no matter how angry you may be with them. in this case, i think i would have helped him clean up to the degree i could, and then walked. cancer and all. as a dying woman, i wouldn't want my children to

Leelila_Strogov read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 3:11 PM

be left with an image of a mother who doesn't stand up for herself after being mistreated. what does that teach them about who they should invite into their own lives? but i know many women think differently.

moogie, being lonely in advance -- sheer brilliance. right along with your description of edwards as precious, cossetted, protected, unaware of the real world, something! and also up there with the notion that he will see what he's done when he finally gets glasses. love it all.

sebar -- i think with edwards it's even worse than being hypocritical and vain. he doesn't have one ounce of charm to make up for such deficiencies. as soon as all of this went down, he should have taken some lessons from hugh grant (who eventually became my favorite older-man actor; i'd choose him over clooney any day) rather than convolute things the way he did. i do love your red, white and blue venom... ;-)

dfdeportation -- i like your analogy... :-)

sebar read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 3:53 PM

SHE'S BACK - Thx Leelila, glad to see you are back again. We feared that you, Squirrel Eyes and maybe Gina had disappeared, though I always held faith out you ladies were just taking a nice late summer vacation which is good to see. We are getting speaker Tony Lawresnce at this September's CWC meeting and I have heard Maria Schrieber is now getting involved with our club overall as well. The CWC was originally founded by Ina Coolbrith and Jack London. Ina had many great friends and was a great lady herself. Another close friend of hers was Samuel Clemens. For those unfamiliar with the name, aka. Mark Twain. Both Jack London and Mark Twain were actually close friends of Ina Coolbrith in San Francisco at the turn of the century and in 1909 they founded the CWC or at least her, Jack and a few others did. Today it remains the only State Sponsored and recognized club for all writers, all genres, that's why we kick serious "literary" butt wherever we go. Past speakers include Ray Bradbury, O'neil (Tip O'Neil's niece) and many others including motion picture and tv producers and writers etc.

Yes I try at times to challenge them when they make stupid statements though as a board member have to refrain these days, thus bypassing the looks and stares from fellow arm-twisting board members.

As for Johnny-Baby Edwards, does he even come up to the level in life of "sticky sidewalk shoe gum," no insults meant to the chewing gum industry???

Leelila_Strogov read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 5:19 PM

back indeed! i've actually been traveling a ton lately... first in cabo... then to the cote d'azur in france... then the greek island of santorini (and i'm about to head to ny at the end of the month). it has been soooo long since i traveled this much, so it was really nice to take a series of breaks and just relax and enjoy. i had forgotten how much i love the smell of airports and airplane fuel, oddly enough. (i think my favorite overheard line at LAX was when one guy said to another -- "no one serves beer here at 7 am you moron, we're not in ireland yet!" but i have to say, along with all the great stories, one of the best things i came home with was the addition of some serious variety to my usual repertoire in the kitchen -- i'm now cooking all this great ethnic food inspired by what i ate overseas. lots of summer soups and beef stews and steak and lamb and flavored rice and grilled and roasted veggies (and even fruit too! i've been grilling figs of all things...). all with these fresh, delicious, exotic spices. yummmm. but enough about food! we're talking sleazy politicians! and the CWC (which sounds utterly cool, btw)! you keep them on their toes and don't back down! and in the meantime, if anyone has any favorite dishes to let me in on, please do. i'm feeling so adventurous with the pots and pans these days. there's nothing like cooking up a storm while watching the elections and other juicy scandals unfold on tv... :-) as for johnny e. i don't know. part of me feels sorry for him. part of me just thinks he's so out of touch he needs to build himself a house

Leelila_Strogov read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 5:20 PM

somewhere far away where he can bring his mistress, his love child, a few astrology charts and some crystals that he can use to send some good energy back home!

sebar read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 5:25 PM

John is a creep and that is all to it. He is nothing more than a cheat and a liar and of all things he cheated on a dying spouse, shame on him for what he did, utter shame on him. He not only didn't honor his vows but perpetrated this on someone dying. No excuse for that! I am sure he will get what he has coming when the "Sky People" get him in the not too distant future. As for cooking I took French cuisine in college originally and yes I cook but usually easy stuff for the most part. My favorite is the Eggs Benedict at Wiler's Deli off Nordhoff and Balboa in Northridge by the Albertson's shopping center. They make the best Egg's Benedict and I have never tasted a sauce as good as their though I only have this every once in a while, but their food remains top notch. Yes I do hammer away at the board and sometimes it leaves me in hot water only to hammer away again on the issues at hand till they get resolved. My motto has always been to never give up.

sebar read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 5:39 PM

The only Crystals John has are the ones that fried his brain. Look, this guy is vile. He chased ambulances and put doctors out of business left and right. Listen to Michael Savage, he has been saying things like this about this guy for the last several years. Again Savage is right on the money and a New York sharpie at that. Savage at this link at 3PM sharp. Too bad Rupert doesn't make amends with Savage, bury the hatchet and make money off Savage and Savage off him. I know that Bill O'Reilly and Savage don't hit it off which is a shame. Could you imagine the two of those guys at 6PM every Saturday evening on FOX heading up a conservative think tank on tv with other guests including having Al Frankin there, man-o-man would the national ratings go through the roof. Now that would be an informative and entertaining show to definitely watch. Anyhow Savage at 3Pm on this radio link online...

http://www.910knew.com/cc-common/streaming_new/index.ht
ml?refreshed=yes&referringsite=streamingradioguide.com

mystere read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 6:52 PM

Leelila,

I confess that I was the one who started wondering what happened, and said something to Sebar. I'm glad to see you back! I'm aware of your literary doings to an extent, after searching on the internet. Yes, this plot would make for something "semi-fictional". Too bad for him; people will remember this scandal for years to come, and that kid of Hunter's will be a target for some bullies, if things leak out. I just hope they don't, for the kid's sake!

Leelila_Strogov read my blog view my photos
Aug 19, 2008 | 7:20 PM

sebar-- i'm definitely going to have to check out wiler's. unfortunately i can't seem to get savage on my computer... in any case, i will say this. i still think edwards' massive failure of character and judgment lies less in his infidelity (i'm not going to pretend to know or judge the intricate dynamics of his marriage), and more in the fact that had he won the democratic nomination, he single-handedly would have brought utter chaos to his party and cost the democrats a shot at the white house. i can't see any way to rationalize that. we are not living in a time when the transgressions of presidential candidates can be kept private. he either should have kept his wandering eye in check, or stopped campaigning. period.

mystere -- it's good to know you're looking out for me! thank you! yeah... who knows what is going to happen to this little girl. things will leak eventually. they always do. at least it looks like hunter's getting some hefty child support payments for now, wherever they appear to be coming from... :-)

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Leelila Strogov is a general assignment reporter for Fox 11 News, specializing in investigative and feature reports.

Member Since: 9/25/2007