Abuse in teenage relationships, also called teen dating violence, is becoming more common, and more accepted among teens, according to a recent survey by the National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence (NCDSV).
The Center for Disease Control (CDC) reports that nearly one in ten teens in grades 7 to 12, male and female, has been physically abused by a boy or girlfriend. Abused teens are more likely to drink heavily, use drugs, engage in risky sexual behavior, develop eating disorders, and attempt suicide. Abuse or dating violence can be physical, verbal, or sexual, and is often used to control the other person. Some warning signs to talk to your teen about to see if they are in an abusive teen relationship or a victim of teen dating violence include: Jealous or controlling behavior, including over friends, appearance, and eating habits Sexual pressure, Pressure to use drugs or alcohol, Name-calling or swearing, A partner losing his or her temper, blaming the other for his or her behavior, A partner insulting or embarrassing the other in front of others, Any form of physical violence, A partner threatening to hurt others or him or herself.
Abusive teen relationships and teen dating violence have become alarmingly common among both genders; in a study conducted by the CDC, nearly equal numbers of teenage boys and girls reported being abused by their partner. Abusive teen relationships and teen dating violence are not limited by ethnic group or income level. According to the NCDSV: 20 percent of teens have been threatened by their partners, or had partners threaten to hurt themselves if the relationship ended. 33 percent of teens, and 50 percent of teen girls, say they have felt pressured to have sex in a serious relationship. 30 percent have worried about their safety in a relationship, and 20 percent have been hit, slapped, or pushed. 64 percent have been with a jealous or controlling partner. 55 percent have compromised their standards to keep their partner. 25 percent have been put down or called names by their partner. Abuse will continue over time, and usually becomes more serious, leading to death in 1,300 cases each year, according to the CDC. Abusive teen relationships and teen dating violence have long lasting mental and emotional effects on its victims and the people who care about them. Unfortunately, those who are abused as teenagers are more likely to be in abusive relationships as adults. Because of the seriousness of this problem, it is important to watch for the warning signs of an abusive teen relationship or teen dating violence, including:
Unexplained injuries, Changes in appearance, Withdrawal from friends and family, Giving up activities that were once enjoyed, Changes in behavior or mood - acting depressed, anxious, or secretive, or acting out, Alcohol or drug use, Apologizing for or justifying a partner's behavior - especially his or her temper, Acting afraid of a partner, or worrying about making him or her angry, One partner is possessive and makes all the decisions, One partner insults, criticizes or embarrasses the other. If your child is in an abusive teen relationship or a victim of teen dating violence, talk to a trusted adult to get help. The Teen Action Campaign suggests that if your child or friend is in an abusive teen relationship, talk to them. Be supportive and make it clear that it is not their fault they are being abused. Do not judge them or push them to do anything they are not comfortable with, and be patient. Encourage your teen to stay out of contact with the abuser. If you know the abuser, do not attack him or her as a person, but it make it clear that his or her behavior is not acceptable and encourage him or her to talk to a counselor and develop healthy behaviors. Do not hesitant to turn to good sources for help, including trusted school counselors, religious leaders, doctors, community support groups, the police, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE. Sources: Center for Disease Control: National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, and "Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report," May 19, 2006 Teen Action Campaign National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration Girl's Health.gov
Are you sure about the relationship your teen is into? Have any comments on this subject you would like to share?
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Because others here have made it very hard to leave.......I"M BACK! Different Name, Different Avatar (but my old one is in my photo album), and I'm ready to Rock-N-Roll so let's GOOOOOO!!!!!!
As regular Bloggers, and I'm sure newbie's as well, know there are so called clitches within the system here at FOX's Community Blogging Page. What I am on a mission to do is to try and help out FOX by letting them know the different problems everyone has been having which hopefully will help out on targeting where to apply those fixes and if FOX has something to share with us about it then I certainly wish they would here so all can read!
1) After resigning up here...the first info page I clicked on female and I got the male head image instead of the female head image. (Just so you know...I am a Female)
2) I tryed to add in my avatar picture from My Info...but unsuccessful!
3) Can't really say the posts aren't moving and have been stuck on the same thing now that it seems to be picking back up slowly, but just for future referances!
4) No Archive located on the right corner, limiting posts allowed!
So now.....if you have any complaints or suggestions or experienced certain clitches...please blog it here!!!
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Well here it is with the last season of the year for those pesty black screwbugs (I mean Lovebugs)LOL to make more messes on your property! Homes, Boats, Vehicles, Something all Bikers look forward to for that extra little snack while riding, and so on, and so on!
It's time to scrub, scrub, scrub again, and the best news is they are just now getting started so they aren't in full force as of yet (Now there's something to look forward to HUH)! The summertime bugs are gone but they left their eggs to carry on for the beginning of FALL, Oh Joy!!!
There has been suggestion on how to clean these pest which was covered back in May so I figured it would be a good time to refresh people's memories and let any newbie’s in on the secrets on what you have found that works really well in that nasty clean up, at least what can be used without damages to your paint.
Fabric Softener Sheets is one!
Please help me cover the do's and don'ts so bring it on Bloggers!!!!
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